Inclusive to ALL minds and bodies


Pasha Marlowe, MFT (she/they)

*30 years of professional experience as a marriage and family therapist and coach for neurodivergent adults, couples, and groups

*53 years of lived experience as a multiply-neurodivergent, disabled, queer person

*Global neurodiversity speaker/trainer for organizations, colleges and universities who want to create cultures of neuroinclusion, disability inclusion, and neurobelonging

Watch this short empowering movie to learn about Pasha and her neurodiversity-affirming philosophy


Pasha has a unique "behind the scenes" perspective. Using her decades of professional experience and lived experience as a multipy-neurodivergent person herself, Pasha leads with storytelling, case studies, and large doses of vulnerability and humor. She has worked with organizations around the world who want to expand their DEI efforts and strategies to include neurodiversity, disability, and gender-affirming practices.

NeuroQueering Podcast

Come listen to conversations with neurodiversity-affirming professionals as we challenge, rethink and reframe systems and institutions through the lens of the neurodiversity paradigm. Hosted by Pasha Marlowe.

Neurodivergent & NeuroQueer

Looking to redefine your neurodivergence from an affirming and less pathologizing place?
Check out my 1:1 and couples offerings here!

Virtual Appointments Only

Online Courses

Current course "Same Bed, Different Brains" for neurodiverse couples.

Sometimes, ,you just want to blast through a class on your own. Come check out the courses made just for you - no new notebooks necessary.

Hi! I'm Pasha!

I am a trauma-informed marriage and family therapist turned neurodivergent coach and consultant who identifies as multiply-neurodivergent, disabled (mostly by society), queer, and passionate about helping others.

I work with individuals, couples, organizations, and schools who want to focus on strengths more than deficits and celebrate a diversity of minds and bodies.

My coaching, consulting, and speaking work is unique. I have 30 years of professional experience as well as 54 years of lived experience. I lead with vulnerability, empathy, and humor. I am trauma-informed, neurodiversity and gender-affirming. Together, we will collaborate and get to the root of your problems, create new patterns of interaction, and make change quickly.

I look forward to meeting you.


Patty P.

"Pasha is an amazing couples coach. She helped my husband and I rekindle our relationship in and out of the bedroom. Sometimes we get so used to each other we forget to see our partners through the eyes of the world, as unique, talented and brilliant people"

Charles R.

"I have no idea how Pasha keeps up with my fast-paced thinking and talking and then ask creative questions I never considered asking myself, all which allow me to go deeper into my self-awareness. She is a genius!"

Sally R.

Pasha's coaching group change my life. This is not a light-hearted platitude. It really did change my life. I met brave and courageous women, facing their own truths, struggles and pain. I found a place where people could relate to me and I could relate to them in a spirit of 'me too, and it's ok'

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