Same bed, Different Brains

A groundbreaking online course for neurodivergent couples

What's this?

A groundbreaking, trauma and sex therapy-informed online course for neurodivergent couples who want to improve communication, empathy, and intimacy. Together, you will create the relationship you desire through awareness, boundary setting, deep communication, and increased empathy!

This course has been specially designed for couples where one or both partners has ADHD, autism, and/or trauma. This course is queer and poly friendly as well.

What's Included:

2.5 hours of content

35 conversation prompts

46 lessons

Create the relationship you desire as you learn about your different brains through the lens of neurodiversity, communication skills, sensory and focus issues, RSD/shame spirals, sexual preferences/sexuality, and intersectionality (incl. disability, neuroqueer, BIPOC).

When & Where?

Whenever you want, wherever there is internet - for less than the price of one coaching session, you get to take this course at your pace from the comfort of your own home, whenever you and your partner are able to squeeze in the time.

How much?

Half price now for only $99!


Neurodivergence and the impact on relationships

Communication and Boundaries advice from top relationship experts

How trauma compounds challenges with ADHD/Autism/sexual relationships, and how to manage that trauma

Sensory Issues and RSD in and out of the bedroom, and the big O

Expanding our ideas of sex and intimacy including non-monogamy, infidelity, kink/BDSM, and access intimacy

Intersectionality and stigma in neurodivergent, queer, and BIPOC communities

Celebrate your progress: Returning to intentions, naming desires, and setting future goals

Who's teaching?

Pasha Marlowe, MFT, AuDHD/Neuroqueer Coach (She/they)

Hi! My name is Pasha, and I have a Masters in Marriage and Family Therapy and enjoy working as a trauma and sex therapy-informed, neurodivergent-affirming AuDHD and Neuroqueer coach. I am so glad you have decided to prioritize your relationship!
I believe this course will be an opportunity for you and your partner to reach deeper awareness, intimacy, and empathy for each other’s unique brains. I identify as neuroqueer, which is to say I am neurodivergent (ADHD, autistic, trauma, anxiety) and queer (newly out, actually!). I have also been in relationships with neurodivergent partners, parents, and children, so I understand from many perspectives! Thank you for allowing me to hold space for you.

How do I join?

Click on the button below to sign up and you'll be learning in minutes!


Pasha is a therapist's therapist. It is hard to find someone I trust to hold space for my own pain and shame, especially when it comes to my RSD. This course opened up conversations with my partner that brought us closer emotionally and sexually. We will return to this curriculum often. This is an easy yes! 5 stars!

Jennifer J. (Therapist)

I have never felt so seen as I did in this course. Its' as if Pasha knew my partner and I for years and understood exactly how our relationship could expand. It was easy to navigate and well-organized. Love the videos - I highly recommend this course!

Amy G. (HR Director)

My partner and I are both Neurodivergent and wanted to explore opening up our marriage. This course was queer friendly and perfect for us as we navigated difficult conversations and new boundary setting.

Marsha and Rachel (Entrepreneurs)

After taking this course, my wife not only understands my ADHD brain more, she is showing more empathy and sharing her own sensitivities and challenges with me. I think this course may have saved our marriage! 5 stars!

John M.

Pasha's hilarious, whole-hearted, and empathetic approach is the perfect alchemy for unlocking past pain and releasing the truth of who we are in this world.

Debbie B.

Pasha is an amazing couples coach. She helped my husband and I rekindle our relationship both in and out of the bedroom. Sometimes we get so used to each other, we forget to see our partners through the eyes of the world. as unique, talented, brilliant people.

Patty P.

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